Confused feminist

If after reading posts and commentaries by disgruntled females cum feminists you become one and start posting toxic and unbalanced opinions on your socials, I laugh at you because of how naive and easily flummox you are. 

I know a feminist whose dad was a deadbeat. He abused her mom at the slightest provocation and hits his kids too. He later abandoned his wife for another woman and left them to suffer. 

Being the first child, she had to do odd and obscene gigs to survive. As she grew older she met men who showered her with love only to use and dumb her at the end. Thus, she became hardened and bitter towards the men. 

I never judge such women because their bitterness is justifiable, but I pray that they heal and stop being mad at all men. Not all men did them wrong. 

If your father is/was loving, caring and supportive to you, your mom and siblings why become bitter towards men? 

If a man uses and dumbs you, does it mean all men are scums? 

We are all products of influences but as an adult who has control over her destiny, try and be pragmatic for once. Be objective not subjective.

Don't be a mistogamist because of another woman's failed marriage. She probably saw the red flags but ignored it due to infatuation. Why carry her cross now? 

Why become a misyandrist because a few jerks broke your heart? 

Finally, I'd love you to know that Feminism is not war against men. It's an emancipation for equality.  Fight against misogyny and for equality not the men folk because if all men are dogs, then what breed is your dad? 

Go ahead and answer me.